Helping Children to Feel More Included in the Family

Your children are a big part of your life and world, right? If you’re like many people, there’s probably something really significant in regards to how you interact with your children on a daily basis. How can you be sure that you’re doing what you need to do in order to connect with your kids?

Being more inclusive of your kids can be a huge deal and if you’re looking for ways to integrate them more into your family life, here are some tips that I think work quite well in the whole thing.


Keep Them Involved in Decision Making

It may seem strange, but involving your children in the decision making process can be a really important part of ensuring that they feel like they are part of the family. Whether it’s decisions like “where are we going to dinner”, or something more complicated like “what would you like when we buy our new home”, it can help kids to feel engaged and like they are an important and vital part of the family unit.

Take Them on Special Outings

Special outings can be a really exciting thing for you and your child. Taking them out for dinner on their own and hanging out with them can help you to be more involved in their lives and they are a lot more likely to feel comfortable with you and how you communicate with them. If you have multiple kids, be sure that you take the time to.

Converse With Them About Important Topics

The world around us is changing and that can be stressful for many children of any age group. If you’re willing to talk with them about the stressful things in the world, they are going to feel safer and a lot less worried about what may be going on here. This allows them to have more confidence and, as they grow up, they will know that they can come to you about pretty much anything and everything that may be on their minds at some point in time.

Just Listen

Many kids get frustrated because they feel like no one is really listening to them, their concerns, and their ideas. This can get really frustrating and it can be hard to try and work out what is most important in these situations. Take some time to listen to their ideas, concerns, or whatever else they tell you – it can make quite a difference as you work things out.


Look at what you can change in your current family structure and see what a difference it can make. As you work out what you need to do and how you need to make sense of it, you will notice that there are a lot of different ways that your child can feel better and more included with everything. Find out what there is for you to do and see why it’s such a big deal to include them in your family functions.